Life events are common to many people's experience. Becoming a parent, moving house or getting married – these are all turning points in one's life. Sometimes we are aware of these events and are able to design a suitable plan. Sometimes things happen unexpectedly and we find it difficult to cope up with these uncertainties. One such case is seeking divorce. The conventional nuclear family is already a thing of the past: the challenge for 2020 is dealing with the results of its disappearance.
The recent period of revolutionary upheaval will bed down into social acceptability. The stigma that used to surround divorce and illegitimacy will be a subject only for the history books. In the past 30 years, the rate of divorce has doubled in United Kingdom and half of all children now experience their parents' divorce before they are 16. There have been 20 years of dramatic change and the diversity of family structures is much greater. The proportion of single-parent families will probably continue to bob around 20%, but there will probably be more step families in the future.
All four trends viz., Cohabitation, divorce, births outside marriage and single parents are likely to be even more pronounced by 2020. There is no evidence that any of them are easing. Much has been made of the fact that the divorce rate appears to have reached a stage. Britain has the highest divorce rate in Europe – but it is still rising in first marriages.
The most marked character of families since the 1960s has been that the traditional conception of the British family has disintegrated. The married couple with 2 to 4 children is disappearing. The sequence of life events – marriage, sex and children – has been radically reordered. Marriage rarely comes first and increasingly does not happen at all. Over the past 30 years, levels of cohabitation have trebled, the number of babies born outside marriage has quintupled, and the number of single-parent families has trebled.
Notwithstanding, the diversity of family forms will be striking by 2020. Children living with both their biological parents in the same household will be in the minority. There will be dozens of different types of co-parenting arrangements, with combinations of step families, or adults with children from previous relationships entering long-term relationships with others in the same position but choosing not to live together.
It is important to understand that a successful marriage is not the result of falling in love and craving for affection. It is the result of commitment, acceptance, willingness to change the attitude, adjust and also the ability to handle differences.
If couples fail to maintain these, marriage life turns out to be a doom for them. With all these pitfalls in married life, multiple couples, due to lack of attachment or affection with their spouse, tend to seek divorce so as to lead a peaceful life without problems. It is for those couples, who are in search of solution; a glimpse of the process of divorce is mentioned in this piece.
The process to get divorce has become much easier when compared to earlier days. Where a couple agreements that the marriage is over, the divorce procedure is a straightforward process. It is often the arrangements for children and asset on divorce where the parties will apply for a court order to resolve their disputes. To get divorced in England one must be able to show that he or she has been married for at least one year and that the marriage has irreversibly broken down.
A breakdown in a divorce does not necessarily have to lead to divorce yet this route could have a dramatic effect on the spouses' relationship with their children as well as their personal finances. An alternative to divorce is judicial separation and this would slow down the process and allow mediation to reduce the conflict. In certain situations it may be possible to apply for nullity of a marriage.
There are three parts of the divorce process starting with a legal procedure to end the marriage, secondly arrangements for any children of the marriage and thirdly ancillary relief agreements that will decide the financial matters between the couple and as the step by step guide shows is a separate process to the divorce proceedings. The largest asset on divorce is usually the property and different orders can be applied to the matrimonial home the court depending on the circumstances of the parties. The whole process may take 3 to 6 months.